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Understanding Incontinence and the Pelvic Floor

  • Writer: Amanda
    Amanda
  • Apr 21
  • 3 min read

Updated: May 13

Incontinence is the involuntary leakage of urine, which can happen for various reasons. The pelvic floor is a group of muscles and connective tissues that support the bladder, uterus, and bowel, in women, and bladder bowel and other abdominal organs in men. When these muscles weaken, become tense, or are unbalanced, they may fail to control urine flow properly.


Common causes of pelvic floor dysfunction include childbirth, aging, surgery, pain, hormonal changes, and chronic straining. Women experiencing incontinence often feel frustration because it affects daily activities and social interactions.


What Is External Pelvic Floor Massage Therapy?


External pelvic floor massage therapy involves applying gentle pressure and massage techniques to the muscles around the pelvis, including the hips, lower abdomen, hip flexors, and diaphragm, through the clothes. Unlike pelvic floor physiotherapy which can involve internal massage/treatment, external pelvic floor massage therapy is non-invasive and can be more comfortable for many women.


The goal is to:


  • Release muscle tension and spasms in the external musculature

  • Improve blood flow to pelvic tissues

  • Promote muscle relaxation and flexibility

  • Support better muscle coordination for bladder control, through strengthening


Therapists trained in pelvic health use specific techniques tailored to each woman’s needs. They often combine massage with breathing exercises and guided muscle activation.


How External Pelvic Floor Massage Therapy Helps with Incontinence


1. Reduces Muscle Tension and Spasms


Tight or overactive pelvic floor muscles can cause discomfort and worsen incontinence symptoms. External massage helps relax these muscles, reducing spasms that interfere with bladder control.


2. Enhances Blood Circulation


Improved blood flow supports tissue healing and muscle function. Massage encourages circulation in the pelvic area, which can aid recovery after childbirth or surgery. Putting mild pressure on tight muscles for a short period, when released, this allows blood to rush in and help heal.


3. Supports Muscle Strength and Coordination


By releasing tension and promoting relaxation, massage prepares the muscles for strengthening exercises. This combination helps restore proper muscle coordination needed to hold urine effectively.


4. Provides Pain Relief


Many women with pelvic floor dysfunction experience pain or pressure. Massage therapy can ease discomfort by addressing muscle tightness and improving tissue health.


What to Expect During a Session


An initial external pelvic floor massage session lasts 45 minutes. The therapist will:


  • Discuss your symptoms and medical history

  • Explain the massage techniques and what you may feel

  • Use gentle, targeted pressure on the hips, low back, abdomen, and inner thigh through your clothes

  • Guide you through breathing and relaxation exercises, and teach some strengthening exercises. We may also encourage small changes to help alleviate symptoms. For example, if you don't feel like you fully empty your bladder when you go, standing up and then sitting back down right away can encourage more urine to flow.

  • Provide an exercise sheet that you can take home.


Follow-up sessions are 30 minutes long. We discuss how the first session went and any changes to your initial symptoms that you have noticed, followed by treatment similar to the first, and discussion of exercises, including progression.


Sessions are usually comfortable and may feel deeply relaxing. Some women notice immediate relief, while others benefit from multiple sessions over weeks.


Practical Tips for Women Considering This Therapy


  • Combine massage with pelvic floor exercises like Kegels for best results, if indicated.

  • Maintain good hydration and avoid bladder irritants such as caffeine and alcohol.

  • Practice regular relaxation techniques to reduce overall muscle tension.

  • Be patient and consistent; improvements often take time.


Additional Benefits Beyond Incontinence


External pelvic floor massage therapy can also help with:


  • Pelvic pain and discomfort (like PCOS or endometriosis)

  • Postpartum recovery (like diastasis recti)

  • Sexual health and function

  • Constipation related to pelvic floor dysfunction


These benefits make it a versatile option for women seeking holistic pelvic health care.


When to Seek the Help of a Doctor or Physiotherapist


If you experience sudden worsening of symptoms, severe pain, or signs of infection, contact your healthcare provider immediately.


A pelvic floor physiotherapist is highly recommended for individuals experiencing severe pain, particularly during intercourse or tampon insertion. Such discomfort can often indicate underlying issues that may require a more comprehensive approach to treatment, like an internal assessment of tension around the vaginal walls.


Conclusion


In conclusion, external pelvic floor massage therapy offers a gentle, and effective approach to managing incontinence and enhancing pelvic health. By focusing on relaxation, muscle coordination, and overall well-being, this therapy can help you regain control and confidence in your daily life. If you're considering this treatment, remember to consult with a specialist and be open to the journey of healing.


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